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Mrhandy12

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Re: Dating App Situation 2020
« Reply #15 on: December 08, 2020, 11:40:52 pm »
Interesting point: once (and if) we start this section we should do a good promotion on female forms and generally our women shuold do a good word of mouth work to others, in addiction I say thath if the system works well it will have a good reputation as a safe place and will attract more and more women. Anyway at the beginning woman will have more chioce ;D


(Disclaimer - this is my observation as a "girl next door" type with XL implants. Not in the adult content industry, just a regular corporate 9-5er)


I don't think it's that simple.  This site is not exactly female-friendly.  It's mostly just guys talking about women with breast enhancements. There is a lot of objectification. I see posts that are insulting (saying women with implants are gold diggers or are shallow), etc... Yes there are posts where I see some intelligent discussions and I try to respond on those when I see them, but it's a small percentage.


Many of the women who do engage here make (all or some) their living on paid content like OnlyFans... Not many respondents are women who just like/want/have implants (both normal and XXL sizes). Nothing wrong with making adult content of course, but I doubt any of those ladies are looking for dates. It's just another forum to engage with fans...


I am not saying that I think everything has to change but there but the would site need to be more supportive/nurturing to the female and non-white members before it will take off as a resource for dating. I am not saying it won't work, but it will be an uphill battle. (And as a non-white women I wouldn't posts pics here until there is a better way to search by race/ethnicity). Assuming of course you'd want this option to appeal to any women who likes/wants/has implants...


Having said that, I can see it being a place for women looking for sugardaddies or for help paying for implants. That seems more in line with the mentality & expectations here...

(Again, of course, just my opinion)


Oh! and as far as the verification - most sites that do this use a third party source.  You don't want to send your personal identification to the admins here (no offense) and I am sure they don't want to be responsible for having that info in case something happens (like identity theft). Once verified you'd get a badge or something set on your account.  Certain parts of your profile would HAVE to be filled out and once verified, they'd be locked so you couldn't change it without getting reverified.

You raised some great points. I think instead of allowing this platform to be in favor of sugarbabies and such it could work as a crowdfunding site for women who want to get their first enhancements. Instead of selling pornography of various forms or selling sex, we could just be like a community that supports women who want to go plastic without any obligations to follow. Of course donating to a woman would likely get you to have conversations with her or personal discussions. Kind of like what that scam site "myfreeimplants" was like before they just grabbed the money and made a run for it.

The big issue of course would be if users here would actually donate without demanding something sexual in return, but anyways... Those are my 5 cents to how we could make this a more welcoming community to ordinary women who are curious about these types of enhancements.

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Re: Dating App Situation 2020
« Reply #16 on: December 10, 2020, 09:49:03 am »
I read somewhere - dating apps aren't for dating they're for women's egos - and based on the swipe ratio I see what they meant now. It seems to work for a lot of my horny-but-average buddies, but probably not worth it for anyone who would rather save themselves physically for worthy matches.

On another note, I was thinking perhaps there is a pattern to the way fetishes are present in public, from bra choice to taste in anime? Perhaps inflation/expansion/size-queenery presents as the slightly more digestible thirst for Hentai or something. It may be reaching, but the point here is we are just trying to narrow the pool of "normal" people and more easily identify what's in someone's mind when that thing happens to be fairly taboo.

I am considering making a business card with nothing more than a link to Fetlife and handing it to people on the street who catch my eye XD

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Re: Dating App Situation 2020
« Reply #17 on: February 05, 2021, 02:52:38 pm »
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Re: Dating App Situation 2020
« Reply #18 on: February 06, 2021, 03:03:41 am »
I remember your previous girlfriend from her amazing thread. From your description, it sounded like being up front about your fetish early on was key. I'd think that you could somewhat tactfully declare that on something like a business card (which I've seen used as a pickup tactic before) - like maybe a pic of you with your arm around a giant busted silhouette with a question mark inside, or a limerick about you looking for a girl who wants to be transformed, etc

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Re: Dating App Situation 2020
« Reply #19 on: February 12, 2021, 09:55:26 am »
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Re: Dating App Situation 2020
« Reply #20 on: March 30, 2021, 08:42:54 am »
I'd be for an app if you could meet true, genuine people. I wouldn't want to be used as a wallet for a punching bag. I would date a woman with implants as long as we had a connection of some sort. I wouldn't date her just for her implants. She really needs to have an outgoing personality, be very unselfish, and treat me a person, not a piece of shit.

I did date a woman 10 years ago with implants and she did want to go larger. We had strong chemistry in the beginning but when she would get overly angry over little things like my cell phone breaking because I dropped it or wondering why I bought a used laptop from a pawn shop (then she took it to a police officer friend to have the hard drive checked), that was a clue to get out. Especially when she told me what she did to her ex-husband (her personal issue so I will not disclose). Also, she was forced to get those implants.

I'm recently separated and going through a divorce. I'd rather date, for example, a woman with huge implants that would say "Let's go hit the slopes today and explore some small town" and have a great day as opposed to a woman that sleeps until 5pm then throws a coffee mug at me because the mall closed at 7PM and end the night my going on Facebook to tell people that I'm a "...Fuck up, born a fuck up."  This is someone I moved across a continent for...twice.

So ladies...I wash dishes, vacuum, and wash windows. :)






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Re: Dating App Situation 2020
« Reply #21 on: April 04, 2021, 04:02:01 pm »
I remember your previous girlfriend from her amazing thread. From your description, it sounded like being up front about your fetish early on was key. I'd think that you could somewhat tactfully declare that on something like a business card (which I've seen used as a pickup tactic before) - like maybe a pic of you with your arm around a giant busted silhouette with a question mark inside, or a limerick about you looking for a girl who wants to be transformed, etc

Perhaps, but only if you are looking for a TS bimbo or a pay pet or something. Doing well with women requires less logic and explanation and more leadership by actions and feelings. Be honest and "let" her see what you're into early, but don't be blunt in a gross or rude way. I never said "if you're with me this is what's going to happen" but if she asked something like "would you leave if I got fat" or
"would you leave if I wasn't into boobs" I never said no either. There is a lot of power in being honest and firm on what you desire, but also destructive power if you let it seem like a contract or transaction.

I'm recently separated and going through a divorce. I'd rather date, for example, a woman with huge implants that would say "Let's go hit the slopes today and explore some small town" and have a great day as opposed to a woman that sleeps until 5pm then throws a coffee mug at me because the mall closed at 7PM and end the night my going on Facebook to tell people that I'm a "...Fuck up, born a fuck up."  This is someone I moved across a continent for...twice.

There are exactly two ways to date ladies with implants: you talk to every one you meet and you'll end up dating some, or you date younger or less jaded women (i.e. feminine, not Karens) and they will do it because they take on your worldview. This is the tip of an enormous iceberg of man/woman advice, but if you cross the continent for a woman and/or are committed and exclusive to one, or head straight to marriage, there is no reason for her to go out of her way to please you; she looks at you like the pet. It's much easier than most of us men realize until we try it... once you break through to middle age and are even somewhat successful (read flexible and traveled) you can date almost any girl, even low 20s, and they are far more prone to absorb their man's fetishes if he is focused on himself first. Women are hard wired for this.
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Re: Dating App Situation 2020
« Reply #22 on: April 06, 2021, 01:12:39 pm »
I've been on Plenty of Fish in the UK now for a few years.  There have been quite a few women on there with quite obvious fake boobs.  I've been up front from the start about liking that look.  A lot of the time the women have said that they've had the implants for themselves and not for a man.... I've always said that's how it should be though I've never been sure if they've been honest.  I've found the middle aged women easier to chat to as the younger girls seem really self-obsessed.

I've been chatting to one woman now for a few weeks, she's 5'5'', slim, dark and 705cc high profile implants.  They do look absolutely incredible and I cannot wait to see/feel them for real.  I agree with the others who've said you need to be honest from the start - i have been and its has puts lots off but I;d prefer that so that when I meet someone who I connect with I know it will have been worth it.

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