She is going to be on her own soon (gradually) but I am helping finish what I started and perhaps we will stay playmates. We will see. I don't know if bipolar is the correct term, but the pressure of this kind of relationship was too much for her to put it gently, and she acted out in let's say... self sabotaging ways.
On the bright side, Dr. Baeke worked magic today, removing a lot of scar tissue, releasing a lot of tethering, and righty is back to 650cc. In a few months she will be able to start filling to match the 1100cc still in lefty. This is all very uncommon experience so I am happy to share perspective if anyone reaches out or asks, but it's too much to write right now. I have to get her meds and take her to the hotel soon. Wish her luck! I still want the best for her.