She says her guy was abusive and made her feel like she needed it to look attractive
and i think this guy was damn right.
No he wasn't. Appreciating women with heavy plastic surgery is one thing, I do it, the more fake they look the more I like it, but pressuring a woman to undergo it and telling her she's ugly and unattractive otherwise is abuse. If a woman wants to undergo those procedures it needs to be because it's her personal idea of beauty, not just because it's the idea of beauty of whatever guy she's dating.