Support girlfriend in bimbofication?

[SillisD]

I met my girlfriend a year ago. She brought two children, two children 5 and 7, with whom I also get along well. At the time we met, she was already two months pregnant, in 5 month she confessed to me and 6 months ago her third child was born. I also like the little one. My girlfriend already looks great, is 38 years old, very slim and had 10 years ago already a breast augmentation, around 400cc what looks mega on your slim body and also tattooed eyebrows. Live with her is very costly since she is not working and loves shopping, shopping and shopping. She cooks well and cares lovingly for the children and me.
Now she wants a complete mommymakeover, wants to renew the breasts and have something enlarged, botox, lip and chin filler and also rhinoplasty.
Should I support her? What conditions should and can I set for her?

[tonyblod]

you should support her and if you are paying you should have the say How big the next implants gonna get

[LurkingGuy]

Why are you asking us? There is no objective answer; do what you feel comfortable with. If you think she spends money frivolously then talk to her.

[kbalz]

Don't. Find a new girlfriend without children

[SillisD]

Don't. Find a new girlfriend without children

Do you think the chirldren make me some trouble?

[Wabill]

If she is kind and loving, keeps a nice house and cares for you that’s a great start.
If you care for her that’s good too.
If she wants to use surgery to look better with bigger boobs for herself and you then you are on a winner.

Should you pay ?
Well you are already!
If you are able to afford her then what is the problem?

Be warned though,
After a mummy makeover she will need a whole new wardrobe !

Enjoy the ride, it’s fun.
 

[SegFault]

I think there’s some red flags here. She came into your life a year ago pregnant with her 3rd child, none of which are yours. You’re supporting her, her spendy lifestyle, and her kids completely. However you cannot talk about money with her. What else can you not talk about? Are you afraid to confront her?

I think until you have the appropriate amount intimacy with her you’re making a mistake. Can you maintain her lifestyle, can you set appropriate limits with her on spending. Does she treat you with respect and kindness? If your resources are so high that you can sustain to have a woman like this around then you wouldn’t be writing here about her spending habits. So examine this, are you chasing the fantasy of having the arm candy and are perhaps blind to other issues that will rear their head and determine long term compatibility. I would not want to make that investment into someone who I to put it plainly do not feel secure with on some level.

[SillisD]

After a mummy makeover she will need a whole new wardrobe !

Haha, I know...

Thanks you all for the feedback.