I did not ask for the Truth. I asked for your opinion. So, I guess it's too complicated to have an opinion. No problem.
If you think that's complicated, try being a TV.
I met men for sex. I'm not gay. I love the female form so much that I made one of my own. Sex with men was what I thought we trannies did, I wanted to explore my femininity and take it to the obvious conclusion. I didn't even care to see a pic of a guy I was arranging to meet. Better not to in case it put me off. I wasn't sexually attracted to them. I tried a number of times to be sure, because maybe I just hadn't met the right guy. Confused yet? Wait, there's more.
Sucking a dick is not how you think it'll be. That's my opinion. It felt kinda slimier in my mouth than I thought. I could deep throat a dildo but 2" of real dick made me gag. Not that it was a problem. But spending hours getting ready to meet - body shave, douche, etc etc - is a long run for a short jump when the whole guy thing isn't doing it for you.
So I just met other tgirls, who you can actually talk to about shoes and makeup and it's an evening, not just cum 'n' go sex. They get the appeal and when somebody gets you, that's sexy. Then it doesn't matter what genitalia they have. The line gets very blurry, because hey, I'm not attracted to guys and yet I'm aware of the irony of being with one who's dressed as a hot woman.
Most TG porn is not for me. It's usually him going down on her. I didn't want a guy to go down on me. I know, because the 2nd guy I met did and I didn't let it happen again. I'm the girl, he's the guy. I don't even want to mention my chikstik. More irony: I don't mind a tgirl going down on me. So I'm comfortable with the bi label, though with conditions.
The boobs in TG porn are not generally on the larger scale. But a tgirl with big boobs hits all sorts of synapses for me and there is as much appeal in the outfits, the shoes and the makeup as the genitals. I realise I have a different aesthetic sensibility but stay with me and I'll try to generalise.
There's a Lisa Lipps video, where the first 5-10 minutes is just kissing. I struggled to get past the intro, such was its power over my libido. Kissing makes it appear that the participants are happy to be there, not make me feel guilty as a consumer driving demand for them to do something they'd rather not. Seeing others aroused arouses us. A straight guy doesn't walk down the street checking out guys but if he sees a hard-on, his arousal meter flickers, because there's sex going on and he's interested until he's not. And these images are not realistic hard-ons, they're fantasy female hard-ons. They're aroused in the same way a male viewer would be, they "get it," which is a turn-on, just like me with another tgirl, I'm guessing in my cod-psychologist outfit.
Sensuality is an ethereal thing and there must be many academic dissertations on the nature of it. Some suggest that everybody is bi to some extent. It's all flesh. A friend of mine let his girlfriend put a dildo up his ass but he'd never let a guy. So if you're not attracted to a tgirl, maybe you just haven't met the right one.
On a similar tip, I like custard on my Christmas pudding. Don't ask me to explain it, you cream-loving freaks.