always found it a bit weird for someone to go "well she should get a bigger/better random thing here or there..she should stop doing this or that" like ,you're just someone somewhere probably a country or an ocean away from this person you've never met or will meet telling them you know what's best,how do you figure that arrangement works for you?
as hard as it is to define what things on the internet are intended for, what I've mostly believed is these adult forums were meant to admire what already exists in a more personalized manner or around similar audience,but to demand or suggest modifications?feels like a weird entitlement of some sort,like telling a musician to quit a genre or telling an actor to go for more dramas instead of cheap action flicks
not trying to judge how someone would spend their leisure time, you're free to daydream or imagine things all you want if you're doing just that, but for me it feels some here have those lines in particular blurred.