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Re: Ladies with XL implants, would you date..
« Reply #15 on: October 07, 2020, 09:10:19 pm »
There are three things going on here... appearance is one thing, personality is another layer, and fetish/kink/erotic drive is another entirely. XL implants don't necessarily mean one thing in any of those aspects.

There are plenty of plain girls who have a huge implant kink and plenty of model level types who have strict limits on size because they aren't turned on by it exactly, but more interested in the status/wealth/power/lifestyle it can get them (and the vast majority of men with money and power are not looking for what we here call "XL").

However, even these are just "typical" stereotypes. The ideal for most of us is probably a pretty girl who takes care of herself, who has a genuine, perhaps "next-door" personality, and who also literally gets turned on by enlarging and having preposterous tits.

Of course, this is a unicorn. The odds of knowing one are miniscule even for a male "unicorn".

On the other hand, the more augmentation is normalized, the more girls next door will have or be into it, and there's no reason to think it's not in your future if you commit to being the best you you can be first. Be rich or be awesome, you will never be alone... and pretty much anybody can be at least one of those with enough hard work.

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Re: Ladies with XL implants, would you date..
« Reply #16 on: November 06, 2020, 08:38:12 am »
I'm of the opinion that women that get huge implants and a lot of other cosmetic surgeries do it to live the "trophy wife" or "bimbo" lifestyles and attract a certain kind of guy.. The kind of guy that drives an Italian car and has a huge house with 20 more rooms than he needs and always "manscapes" and knows what to order at a spa day etc and not the kind of guy that you'd be more likely to find out fishing, or getting ready for hunting season or getting ready to go to motorcycle races or something.

Someone I've been talking to on fetlife swears that gorgeous women actually don't get asked out very often because they seem beyond "normal" people's reach.. I don't believe her, I'm sure you still get hounded, though probably treated as a mindless hole to fill and not a beautiful woman to get to know.


So much to unpack here. I'm not going to get into all of it. Suffice it to say what I see here is your insecurity, which is the real turn off. Not your lack of wealth or whatever else you perceive this girl wants. Anyone who approaches me like this is not considered a real option. I can't spend my life telling them they are good enough and I don't want a rich guy with a big house.


The person on Fetlife is 100% correct. I rarely get approached irl. Online is a wasteland if tasteless disrespectful messages.




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My personal take on the matter:The majority of women who go for XL implants are gold diggers. There are exceptions so don’t start chewing me out, fellow boob aficionados!



That's just insulting.


Do you actually know any women with XL implants? Or are you basing this on what you see in media and porn? (Porn isn't real)

Speaking of porn. There are many porn stars with xl implants.  Would they be in the sex industry if they were good diggers? Is being a porn star suppose to land them a rich husband?

If you really think that's the case, would you still want to date/marry a gold digger just because she has big implants? Not sure what this says about you...


You are both being shallow in looking for a partner so you've attributed the girl with implants with being shallow as well... maybe to make yourselves feel better? She won't want you so she must be a gold digger or a bimbo?


Neither of you mentioned attraction, compatibility, chemistry, love. Just boobs and "stuff" (money cars houses). You haven't even tried to pretend this girl is a real person. Just a persona you've seen somewhere in a meme.
« Last Edit: November 06, 2020, 08:59:50 am by SexxyMoeFoe »
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Re: Ladies with XL implants, would you date..
« Reply #17 on: November 07, 2020, 12:30:45 am »
I agree with Moe Foe,
You need to find that woman that you have that chemistry with, also known as the “ spark”.
It means you’ll do anything for her and she is special to you , no matter what.
You can’t go looking for a set of implants with the right woman attached.
You need to find the right girl and go from there.

Also , what’s it matter if she does or doesn’t have or want the fake boobs you desire, women bring so much more to your life than a bag of liquid in their chest.

The whole fake boob thing has only been around a short time anyway. Yet men have taken it almost as their right to have a woman with initially a nice looking set of boobs to the more modern trend of very large boobs.

Certainly there are some women who want that, but it’s a small percentage, most will gladly opt for a nice set of natural looking boobs but the larger sizes ,not so many.

I found women to be the most amazing creatures , in being able to change and adapt, they will do almost anything to make you happy if they love you.
I’m not saying this to exploit them - more that if you develop a loving relationship with a woman, one that’s safe, caring and nurturing she will reward you in many ways.

So as others here have said,
Figure out what your good at, you say your on the spectrum, many successful people are, develop your special skills, maybe online share trading is your talent, or sports betting, music  I’m not advocating anything , but everyone has some talents.
Maybe gets some mentoring from some one in your family or friends, some one who has succeeded already, not well meaning people who have no idea.
Remember the saying
“Never eat food cooked by a skinny chef”.



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Re: Ladies with XL implants, would you date..
« Reply #18 on: January 16, 2021, 11:41:28 pm »
Yeah moe foe can give you a good answer to you question cause she is one them
in fact she is so right, guys always things about xxl implant but  a lot dont even know one or ever has talk with a girl like that.

At some point, when i was young my answer can be : money of course, all thoses girls want a guy with a lot of money. handsome or ugly, old or young, hot or fat, just a rich dude. period. Money rules the world, no money no honey sentence like that....

But now im 30 year old i dont think the same at all, they are just regular girl, maybe you just focus too much on the XXL implant, of course some of them really want a rich husband or boyfreind. But the other are still woman, and a lot a woman just want a nice guy, respectfull, carefull, she need to find you atractive of course just like every kind of girl on this planet....

Dont focus on the boobs, focus on the brain try to make her day, thats the biggest advice i can give you. if you follow that advice, and IF you have luck maybe you can date one of that woman.

Woman like that dont want to be just boobs, if just boobs matter to you, there is a lot of escort girl who can make you dream come true, if you want to be with her, try to know her. focus on her.

i always remember that sentence, if you see a girl and the first thing that came to your mind is sex, its just mean its not gonna be your wife lol you gotta look deeper

You know 99% of dude will never ever be married to a hot huge boobs model, sad but true....

Try to imagine a diner with Moe Foe for example ( who is a nice girl ) for example, at the table with her, are you focus on her tits ? or you are focus on what she said ? that the deal ....

i hope my comment can help you

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