Hey guys,
Please forgive the thread necromancy but I wanted to share my story:
After the birth of my two kids, my wife’s body changed quite dramatically. Not only her beautiful booty disappeared, but her (natural) breasts became smaller and saggy. I was fine with her body before pregnancy, even though I am really attracted to fake boobs.
She looked perfect for me, except for her natural boobs (but at least they were firm). However, now I am sexually not attracted to her anymore. We’re rarely sleeping with each other anymore and I avoid touching or even looking at her breast without a bra.
She is also unhappy with her post-birth body transformation but she would never ever consider implants. Mostly, because of the risk associated with surgery and I have the feeling she thinks fake tits have to be enormously huge, which for me is actually rather a turn-off (I prefer them firm and round, but not necessarily huge). She might be afraid that family and friends would see it. But that’s just guessing since we actually never talked about fake boobs directly. I am afraid that I would really hurt her by bringing up the topic.
Now I don’t know what to do. Can I subtly let her know that her getting fake boobs is my biggest desire? I must say, though, that our second child was born just 6 months ago (she’s not breastfeeding anymore). Maybe I am impatient, but even if her boobs would fully recover, which I doubt, they still remain natural and I wouldn’t be happy with them. What’s your experience about breasts changing after pregnancy? Do they look as they used to be after a while or do they remain saggy?
It already helped having a good cry by writing down my feelings but it would be great if you could tell me your thoughts about it.
Thank you!