Have you ever actually been in the situation of having to choose? aka you been in a relationship with someone that worked great apart from the plastics side of things and ended it bc of that? Because that just seems like self sabotage to me at that point
I know everyone is different, but I have no illusions that i will somehow find one person who fills every romantic, sexual, and “travel buddy” role in my life, or even that a specific relationship will last for the rest of my life. The best lovers will overlap in these categories, but I’m just not prone to being overly idealistic. The best intellectual partners tend not to be *WOMAN*ty and the best sex doll won’t likely be able to or interested in matching my intellect and abstract humor.
My current steady is very intelligent and professional and happy with her modest implants, and partly also due to her age I don’t expect that to change. She knows my taste though, and I wouldn’t ever pretend that Im looking for monogamy, but i also don’t disrespect her or make her feel temporary. In my experience, wise women realize that the quality of their romance/sex/enjoyment/lifestyle go way up when they recognize that no man really wants to be chained to one person for life. The connections you make are more genuine and happy when you dont have to lie about what you want.