There are exactly two ways to date ladies with implants: you talk to every one you meet and you'll end up dating some, or you date younger or less jaded women (i.e. feminine, not Karens) and they will do it because they take on your worldview. This is the tip of an enormous iceberg of man/woman advice, but if you cross the continent for a woman and/or are committed and exclusive to one, or head straight to marriage, there is no reason for her to go out of her way to please you; she looks at you like the pet. It's much easier than most of us men realize until we try it... once you break through to middle age and are even somewhat successful (read flexible and traveled) you can date almost any girl, even low 20s, and they are far more prone to absorb their man's fetishes if he is focused on himself first. Women are hard wired for this.
This reflects my personal experience as well.
Was in a relationship for 20 years with a nice and pretty lady, but she did not share/accept my fetish in regards to big boobs, which led to a lot of arguments and us being separated.
After we separated, I was on the dating market again with 42.
This was an enjoyable experience since I was not aware that being middle aged, successful/well-off and being somewhat good looking (no big belly, tall) is very attractive to a lot of women.
I ended up with my current women who was 24 when we started dating.
She is very pretty, sweet, educated and hard working, which I really like.
She also told me she couldn’t believe that she could land a guy like me. 😂
I also shared my preferences from the get-go and was blown away by the reaction.
She actually shared my views and also wants big boobs, even scheduled an appointment when she was 18 with her mother. 😁
Our only issue was to find a slot for surgery that fits in our schedule.
My tip would be: do not underestimate your sexual market value as a middle aged male - women’s market value greatly diminishes after 30-35 years of age, while you as a male grow or at least stay the same at middle age.
Pick a hard-working, ambitious women that values stability and is looking for a partner, not some vapid bimbo that will only see you as an ATM. Also don’t try to look for a perfect unicorn that already fits fully in terms of looks - you can influence your partner and women will readily accept fashion advice etc.