Marti, you reminded me a post from CumOnLatex.
Hey guys, I just got done talking to Fembomb. She's going thru alot of technical difficulties with her websites server and in the process of doing a massive restore on her website. She'll be back soon!
Yes, it's quite old since posted on Sep 15, but it's something. I don't know how well he knows Fem, but as I know his work, I don't have a reason not to believe him.
P.S. But yes, 3 months of inactivity and no communication with fans ARE things which make everyone suspicious.