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My Wife’s Consultation
« on: January 05, 2023, 07:26:40 pm »
My wife and I recently went to a surgical consultation for a mommy makeover. The doctor recommended a breast lift in addition to implants (which my wife was very apprehensive about). Her measurements are approximately 5’1” and 140lbs. The doctor all but insisted that implants would be the best option to attain her ideal breast shape. After he left the assistant took measurements to determine what size implant would best fit the breast width (14.5cm). According to the Mentor sizing chart 14.5cm is equal to about 550cc in a moderate plus profile. My wife immediately balked when shown the 500cc sizer. After great debate and sizer fitting my wife tried on the 380cc and liked the result. I’m worried this will be very small considering that most women report loosing a cup size due to the lift on its own. Combining the lift with such a small implant I am worried will result in breasts smaller than they currently are. I am going to talk to her soon to try to convince her to aim for something at least in the range of what the size chart provided by the manufacturer recommends for her breast size. Do you guys have any suggestions as to what I could say to her to convince her that in her case with her build that a larger implant really IS the best option and not necessarily for my selfish reasons? We scheduled the procedure for mid February so I have a bit of time to figure this out.

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Re: My Wife’s Consultation
« Reply #1 on: January 05, 2023, 09:49:54 pm »
maybe give your wife time to recover. why would you want her to have her boob cut in half just so it looks bigger/fake. maybe if you wait a bit you dont have to do that and can just go for a normal op?

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Re: My Wife’s Consultation
« Reply #2 on: January 06, 2023, 12:13:31 am »
I'm not sure if your wife doesn't like the idea of the breast implants, or doesn't like the idea of the lift - or both?

If your wife is afraid of a bigger size implant because it intimidates her, or she just feels more comfortable with the 380cc in for whatever other reason, talk about that with her and find out why.

Other than that, you already wrote a perfect description of your concerns.

I think its totally valid for you to imagine a size loss due to the lift combined with the lesser volume implant would maybe not lead to the result she actually wants, possibly even lead to a second visit at the surgeon later on.

To me, it sounds a little like you haven't actually discussed your preference for larger size boobs with her, and instead just hope that this "mommy makeover" will achieve this for you instead?

If so, then i would say it is a bit late for that discussion anyway. If she is committed to the makeover now by her own vision and wants to get through with it, just let her get feels most comfortable with and then explore that outcome with her.

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Re: My Wife’s Consultation
« Reply #3 on: January 06, 2023, 07:01:27 am »
I have a gf who balked at the idea of going big. She fought me tooth and nail. She’s a super tiny Vietnamese woman (4’11”  & 92 lbs). She looks like she’s 14 y.o., body wise, even though she’s almost 40. She would tell me she wanted small and non-obtrusive. We went to one surgeon and he said 325 max. The next said 250 max…maybe 350…you don’t want to be thought of as a porn star, you don’t want people to judge you based on your looks, etc.; basically, guilt tripping her. Honestly, I thought to myself, what idiot doesn’t want to come home to a gf or wife who has a stripper’s or porn star’s body? Absurd. Avoid conservative surgeons at all cost. Anyway, the third surgeon was the real deal. The surgeon went with 400 plus a teaspoon (5cc). Why? That’s all she could fit in. I was very surprised at my gf and her going in the consult with the question, “How big can I go?”

So what changed?

I was very open with her about my desires, wants, and expectations. I laid it on the line; tactfully. I told her it would be a game changer. Just 100cc more would make a difference. It would be a journey. It would add to her already sexy self, etc. She would be surprised at how she would be spoiled if she went a bit “naughtier” for me. I made sure I dropped hints of me loving large, fake boobs. I showed her photos of the “stars” I liked just because of their implant size and appearance. She saw how important it was to me. She sensed it. In short, I learned much from “ https://implants4her.com/”. I strongly urge you to buy this work and read it.

End result? I spoiled her rotten: four designer shoes, lots of clothes, several trips, etc. I showed her I was serious. Now guess what? She’s agreed to going double the size: 800! She’s promised me to go that big once she can fit them in; roughly 2.5 years to go! She saw how it benefitted our relationship, how I went crazy, and how I spoiled her. Get this: she’s now TELLING ME she wishes she was capable of going bigger. She’s saying going to 800 won’t be a “big” deal; so to speak. She’s changed her tune and her outlook.

In short, you have every single right to want your wife to go bigger. I know you’re paying for it. Your hard-earned money is going to go for something that you will not be happy with, knowing that the end result could be oh so much better. I don’t know your relationship dynamics, but I do know something: don’t pay to get something done which is half-a$$ed and will leave you disappointed. Make your views crystal clear. If you press the right buttons, you’ll get her to not only agree to the size you want, but you’ll have her wishing she could’ve gone bigger and wanting another procedure to get them even bigger.

Read the book on the website I shared above. Explain to her that most women bemoan not going bigger, that the implants will settle and the size won’t be to her liking. So why waste a procedure for suboptimal results? Explain to her how much you like large, fake breasts and how it would supercharge things. Another x amount is nothing; fill a ziplock bag with the x amount and show her. It would mean so much, honey. You would feel even sexier than you already are, baby. Let’s get that larger size and then decide where we’re going on a trip to celebrate and show off your gorgeous new breasts in a new bikini I’ll buy you. So on and so forth. My gf deciding to go as large as possible has been an absolute game changer. Once she goes to 800 she’ll be a goddess. I can’t imagine being with anyone else now because she’s becoming that dream woman who wants to please US and not just me. I’m in it for the long haul.

At the end of it, if worse comes to worse, it’s your money and you aren’t going to spend it on something that will disappoint you; seriously. Give her time to come around.

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Re: My Wife’s Consultation
« Reply #4 on: January 06, 2023, 04:36:44 pm »
Interestingly my girlfriend who is 5'3" just went through something similar and she got 395cc implants with a lift. I also thought I'd be disappointed, but I am actually shocked how big they are on her frame. I'm very happy with them, even as someone whose mind has been spoiled by years on this forum. If your wife is 5'1" you will likely also be surprised at the results.

It can also be a stepping stone to a larger size in the future, once she gets used to them. For me, just getting implants at all is a huge deal and 90% of the battle.

I don't know how true this is, but my girlfriend's surgeon was also insistent that when combining with a lift, it's better to go with a smaller implant. So it could also be beneficial for your wife's health and recovery to go a little smaller this time, then upsize later.

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Re: My Wife’s Consultation
« Reply #5 on: January 07, 2023, 05:52:25 am »
I have a gf who balked at the idea of going big. She fought me tooth and nail. She’s a super tiny Vietnamese woman (4’11”  & 92 lbs). She looks like she’s 14 y.o., body wise, even though she’s almost 40. She would tell me she wanted small and non-obtrusive. We went to one surgeon and he said 325 max. The next said 250 max…maybe 350…you don’t want to be thought of as a porn star, you don’t want people to judge you based on your looks, etc.; basically, guilt tripping her. Honestly, I thought to myself, what idiot doesn’t want to come home to a gf or wife who has a stripper’s or porn star’s body? Absurd. Avoid conservative surgeons at all cost. Anyway, the third surgeon was the real deal. The surgeon went with 400 plus a teaspoon (5cc). Why? That’s all she could fit in. I was very surprised at my gf and her going in the consult with the question, “How big can I go?”

So what changed?

I was very open with her about my desires, wants, and expectations. I laid it on the line; tactfully. I told her it would be a game changer. Just 100cc more would make a difference. It would be a journey. It would add to her already sexy self, etc. She would be surprised at how she would be spoiled if she went a bit “naughtier” for me. I made sure I dropped hints of me loving large, fake boobs. I showed her photos of the “stars” I liked just because of their implant size and appearance. She saw how important it was to me. She sensed it. In short, I learned much from “ https://implants4her.com/”. I strongly urge you to buy this work and read it.

End result? I spoiled her rotten: four designer shoes, lots of clothes, several trips, etc. I showed her I was serious. Now guess what? She’s agreed to going double the size: 800! She’s promised me to go that big once she can fit them in; roughly 2.5 years to go! She saw how it benefitted our relationship, how I went crazy, and how I spoiled her. Get this: she’s now TELLING ME she wishes she was capable of going bigger. She’s saying going to 800 won’t be a “big” deal; so to speak. She’s changed her tune and her outlook.

In short, you have every single right to want your wife to go bigger. I know you’re paying for it. Your hard-earned money is going to go for something that you will not be happy with, knowing that the end result could be oh so much better. I don’t know your relationship dynamics, but I do know something: don’t pay to get something done which is half-a$$ed and will leave you disappointed. Make your views crystal clear. If you press the right buttons, you’ll get her to not only agree to the size you want, but you’ll have her wishing she could’ve gone bigger and wanting another procedure to get them even bigger.

Read the book on the website I shared above. Explain to her that most women bemoan not going bigger, that the implants will settle and the size won’t be to her liking. So why waste a procedure for suboptimal results? Explain to her how much you like large, fake breasts and how it would supercharge things. Another x amount is nothing; fill a ziplock bag with the x amount and show her. It would mean so much, honey. You would feel even sexier than you already are, baby. Let’s get that larger size and then decide where we’re going on a trip to celebrate and show off your gorgeous new breasts in a new bikini I’ll buy you. So on and so forth. My gf deciding to go as large as possible has been an absolute game changer. Once she goes to 800 she’ll be a goddess. I can’t imagine being with anyone else now because she’s becoming that dream woman who wants to please US and not just me. I’m in it for the long haul.

At the end of it, if worse comes to worse, it’s your money and you aren’t going to spend it on something that will disappoint you; seriously. Give her time to come around.

The issue that I am running into is that most of the girls that I date have zero interest in getting breast implants. How did you approach your girlfriend with the idea of her getting implants? What was her initial response and what was the process you went through to get her to say 'yes'?

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Re: My Wife’s Consultation
« Reply #6 on: January 08, 2023, 03:15:03 am »
I have a gf who balked at the idea of going big. She fought me tooth and nail. She’s a super tiny Vietnamese woman (4’11”  & 92 lbs). She looks like she’s 14 y.o., body wise, even though she’s almost 40. She would tell me she wanted small and non-obtrusive. We went to one surgeon and he said 325 max. The next said 250 max…maybe 350…you don’t want to be thought of as a porn star, you don’t want people to judge you based on your looks, etc.; basically, guilt tripping her. Honestly, I thought to myself, what idiot doesn’t want to come home to a gf or wife who has a stripper’s or porn star’s body? Absurd. Avoid conservative surgeons at all cost. Anyway, the third surgeon was the real deal. The surgeon went with 400 plus a teaspoon (5cc). Why? That’s all she could fit in. I was very surprised at my gf and her going in the consult with the question, “How big can I go?”

So what changed?

I was very open with her about my desires, wants, and expectations. I laid it on the line; tactfully. I told her it would be a game changer. Just 100cc more would make a difference. It would be a journey. It would add to her already sexy self, etc. She would be surprised at how she would be spoiled if she went a bit “naughtier” for me. I made sure I dropped hints of me loving large, fake boobs. I showed her photos of the “stars” I liked just because of their implant size and appearance. She saw how important it was to me. She sensed it. In short, I learned much from “ https://implants4her.com/”. I strongly urge you to buy this work and read it.

End result? I spoiled her rotten: four designer shoes, lots of clothes, several trips, etc. I showed her I was serious. Now guess what? She’s agreed to going double the size: 800! She’s promised me to go that big once she can fit them in; roughly 2.5 years to go! She saw how it benefitted our relationship, how I went crazy, and how I spoiled her. Get this: she’s now TELLING ME she wishes she was capable of going bigger. She’s saying going to 800 won’t be a “big” deal; so to speak. She’s changed her tune and her outlook.

In short, you have every single right to want your wife to go bigger. I know you’re paying for it. Your hard-earned money is going to go for something that you will not be happy with, knowing that the end result could be oh so much better. I don’t know your relationship dynamics, but I do know something: don’t pay to get something done which is half-a$$ed and will leave you disappointed. Make your views crystal clear. If you press the right buttons, you’ll get her to not only agree to the size you want, but you’ll have her wishing she could’ve gone bigger and wanting another procedure to get them even bigger.

Read the book on the website I shared above. Explain to her that most women bemoan not going bigger, that the implants will settle and the size won’t be to her liking. So why waste a procedure for suboptimal results? Explain to her how much you like large, fake breasts and how it would supercharge things. Another x amount is nothing; fill a ziplock bag with the x amount and show her. It would mean so much, honey. You would feel even sexier than you already are, baby. Let’s get that larger size and then decide where we’re going on a trip to celebrate and show off your gorgeous new breasts in a new bikini I’ll buy you. So on and so forth. My gf deciding to go as large as possible has been an absolute game changer. Once she goes to 800 she’ll be a goddess. I can’t imagine being with anyone else now because she’s becoming that dream woman who wants to please US and not just me. I’m in it for the long haul.

At the end of it, if worse comes to worse, it’s your money and you aren’t going to spend it on something that will disappoint you; seriously. Give her time to come around.

The issue that I am running into is that most of the girls that I date have zero interest in getting breast implants. How did you approach your girlfriend with the idea of her getting implants? What was her initial response and what was the process you went through to get her to say 'yes'?

Don’t date women who don’t want breast implants. Be tactful. Bring up a conversation and inquire - tactfully - what she thinks about ladies x, y, and z. You’ll be able to gauge what she she likes. Do this early on.

My gf always wanted vanity procedures. I found this out very early. I cultivated it. I told her point blank one day that I wanted her to get implants and I’d be happy to pay. I showed her photos and they all consisted of women who had sizes/appearances I desired on my gf. Initially, she was shocked, but she came to the realization that it was something I wanted very much and she agreed. The process is described in my above entry. I would recommend buying the work I cited.

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Re: My Wife’s Consultation
« Reply #7 on: January 13, 2023, 02:56:43 pm »
Interestingly my girlfriend who is 5'3" just went through something similar and she got 395cc implants with a lift. I also thought I'd be disappointed, but I am actually shocked how big they are on her frame. I'm very happy with them, even as someone whose mind has been spoiled by years on this forum. If your wife is 5'1" you will likely also be surprised at the results.

It can also be a stepping stone to a larger size in the future, once she gets used to them. For me, just getting implants at all is a huge deal and 90% of the battle.

I don't know how true this is, but my girlfriend's surgeon was also insistent that when combining with a lift, it's better to go with a smaller implant. So it could also be beneficial for your wife's health and recovery to go a little smaller this time, then upsize later.

My wife is the same size and got 365cc/385cc and lift on one breast. She originally requested 500cc but the surgeon wouldn't do it, said there could be complications in combination with the lift and the muscle pocket would expand and she could go larger later if desired. I was worried they would be small, but they are surprisingly large on her frame. That said, she has already started hinting that she may want to go bigger, so we'll see. Either way I'm pretty happy at the moment.

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« Reply #8 on: January 16, 2023, 09:35:02 pm »
Update:

After reading your comments, explaining the depth of my fondness for large fake breasts and showing her some images of exactly what my ideal result would be my wife has become much more open minded about going larger. I said that my ideal cup size would be somewhere in the full D to DD range and she was actually onboard!!! I explained that this would mean going with a 550cc moderate plus profile or a 500cc high profile and she was ok with it! We have our pre-op appointment on the 1st of Feb and we intend to tell the Dr. that we would like to see a fullD cup to DD cup with a definitely artificial look. The surgery is scheduled for 2 weeks later. Wish us luck!

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