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Drizzt78

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Escort meeting etiquette
« on: August 21, 2023, 05:52:10 pm »
Never really hired an escort before. Would like to know what the rules \ conventions are.

I'm obviously assuming:
Shower beforehand, be clean in general.
Don't be an asshole.
Establish expectations in advance (phone call \ whatsapp?)

I'd love some more specific guidelines. If they differ by country \ escort class, that would also be interesting.

Vincerick

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Re: Escort meeting etiquette
« Reply #1 on: August 21, 2023, 09:13:06 pm »
Lol I could write a book about this.

Yes - be polite, presentable, precise. Also be careful. This is true for any class and country. Like all walks in life.

Check reviews about the girl and make sure she's worth your time and money.
And don't be afraid to say clearly what you want and except, or if you feel she's not delivering on her promises. Of course politely.
But also you are bound to have underwhelming or even bad experiences on occasion -- then it might be best to get the fuck out.

I would say get your hands dirty and experience it. Don't overthink it. If you're in a country where it's illegal, expensive or dangerous... consider visiting a country where it's cheap, easy  and safe. Germany/Netherlands/Switzerland/Austria and Thailand are maybe the best for newbies. Maybe costa Rica if you're in the USA and speak a few words of Spanish.

Beyond that this is such an open question...

You want to get laid and no fuzz? Then don't talk to the girl more than you need and bang her.
You want to live out fantasies that no one else has let you? Find a girl that can cater to your needs and invest some time in building report and seeing her a few times, maybe give her gifts even.
You want a girlfriend or sugar babe experience? Then communication and setting of expectations is very different.

WhatsApp and  texting is the normal MO. But don't underestimate how much a phone call can convey. It's happened to me that I set up a meeting with an escort and we end up talking on the phone over an hour before... When the chemistry is good. This might be totally unnecessary of course if you just want to fuck.

Always be extra clean and fresh with cologne and nice clothes. They notice this more than you think.
Yes be nice, don't be an asshole. Unless of course you find a girl on whom being a just the right kind of an asshole really gets her to want you.

I would always use protection for intercourse. For oral sex you're relatively safe without, but safer with of course.
It's also totally fine to ask if she has been tested for STDs recently, politely. It's normally not a good sign of this question causes any problems.  Under regulated circumstances (like in Germany), active sex workers test every 1-2 months. I've never gotten any STDs from sex workers, and I banged hundreds of them.for comparison --  I have gotten chlamydia twice from normal girls. It's pretty common, no issues and just 10 days of antibiotics.

I've dated a few escorts in my life and befriended several. You might not want to have anything to do with them beyond sex -- which of course is totally fine as well.

  Out of curiosity,  any  reason in particular that you never tried? I've contributed to some articles in my home country on prostitution and sex work, covering misconceptions, public opinion, consequences of regulations/illegality etc. I'm from Scandinavia where buying is illegal (though selling is legal) and it's slightly more taboo than in Germany or Spain. Still it's prevalent and common, and many Scandinavians go to countries where it's cheaper and easier -- Denmark, Thailand, Germany, Netherlands.

What are you looking for out there?


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Re: Escort meeting etiquette
« Reply #2 on: August 21, 2023, 09:53:33 pm »
I would add the most important thing, maybe the number one... very sharply:  that they are paid workers, they are not your lover and they don't fall in love with u (escorts loves only €€).
I know people that have lost a huge amount of money (and not only) because they think that they were the love of their life, or even worse they ask money for immaginary ill relatives. Maybe is not always like that, but 99% of the times yes.

Vincerick

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Re: Escort meeting etiquette
« Reply #3 on: August 21, 2023, 10:45:19 pm »
100% correct. sex workers are experts at using their looks and sexuality to get you to give them your money. It's literally their job.

I wouldn't recommend to anyone to date an escort - not Even a "retired" escort. 99% of the time it goes badly.
The cliché of a young beautiful sex worker scamming a lonely naive man is actually pretty common - especially for older men. I've seen it happen so many times in Thailand. Don't be naive.


My point was maybe just that they are after all just human beings with dreams and needs and fears and hopes. So treat them as such. And as all humans, some you'll  find to be lovely and some will be detestable in your experience. While many won't leave much of an impression at all.

« Last Edit: August 21, 2023, 10:55:09 pm by Vincerick »

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Re: Escort meeting etiquette
« Reply #4 on: August 21, 2023, 11:41:46 pm »
  Out of curiosity,  any  reason in particular that you never tried? I've contributed to some articles in my home country on prostitution and sex work, covering misconceptions, public opinion, consequences of regulations/illegality etc. I'm from Scandinavia where buying is illegal (though selling is legal)
Same deal here. Recently, I've had a fair deal of money and free time, and spent a while seeing the sights in various European countries. Saw adverts for some really beautiful women and thought I might as well figure some things out.

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Re: Escort meeting etiquette
« Reply #5 on: August 22, 2023, 12:05:57 am »
Sounds like you'll have some fun.

One more general observation: girls who over-emphasize that they are "high end", "luxury", "VIP" etc in their advertising ... Are often just girls with an inflated view of themselves, and seldom provide the best service. There might be exceptions, but unless we're talking about certified a-list escorts, porn stars etc... She might not be worth it if her rates are as inflated too. Some of the best girls I've ever met had basic or straight to the point advertisements, often focused on what they can do for you rather than how amazing they themselves are. And the same goes for pricing as well - a higher price doesn't ensure a better attitude, woman, service or experience.

It's like with nation states... Ever notice how the countries who put democracy in their name tend to be the least democratic?

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Re: Escort meeting etiquette
« Reply #6 on: September 14, 2023, 08:50:29 pm »
Agreed Vince. With girls things work in reverse, the bigger their egos, the less they will do. Sex to them is something they "give"

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