There's a video of Devin Michaels that totally exemplifies this. Devon has stolen Tori Sinclair's boyfriend, and Tori gets mad at Devon. So, to explain why he left Tori for Devon, Devon gives a lapdance to Tori, and Tori is totally fighting her urge to get turned on, but Devon's dance is just too hot to resist. I never last past Devon's lapdance in the first 10 minutes—supposedly Devon teaches Tori to lap dance, and there's an ensuing fight—but all I care about is that first part because Devon totally dominates Tori and is in total control, and both know it. They're both attractive, and I think Devon's body is fitter, but it's Devon's attitude and sensuality are what totally blow Tori away.
The faces of victory and defeat:
Here's a link to the full video on xHamster