Do we, active members and contributors on this forum, need to care about our actions and how we comment women in regards to their looks, enhancements, what they do with their life and career?
Are the topics of our discussions on this forum just objects or do we see them as human beings? Is there a differences on how we perceive and comment on pornstars, amateurs, wifes, escorts, models and celebrities?
In a couple of threads I have been guilty of off topic discussions around this, resulting in heated debates about who is right, who is wrong, so I started this thread.
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I propose that this quandary of morals starts as one of context and audience...
The debate starts with the question of "What is the purpose of ThePerfectBoobs.net?" Some users view this site as one where they can enter the fantasy world of their sexual desires. Others might see this site as a locker room chat where objects of sexual desire can be ogled and gossiped about. And others still might see it as a forum where all sexes and lovers of the female anatomy can safely explore enhancements to the female form... The list could go on and on, but I think the basis for many arguments starts with the fact that different users view this site for different proposes, and even the most "moral" of us can admit to making comments about other women to a friend that we wouldn't say to that person's face.
In lack of a specifically defined propose of this site, I think we all have to assume that anything we say, needs to be something we would say to that person's face (since they could be reading). But as social media has taught us - people acting anonymously often act without accountability. And even non-anonymous people have no problem acting (speaking) badly.
Then the debate continues with consideration of the audience, in particular, the women "on display". Some women probably don't know they are mentioned here or don't care, while others watch this site or even participate. Some women on this site that participate in the display of their enhanced bodies do so acting as their selves, while others are acting more as an actress in character. Each likely has their own drive; money, attention, their own sexual desires, or possibly not even their own but their partner or husbands. What each women is here for is a line that can get quite blurred, but I'd say at best we could guess based on the existence of some form of paid content and use of fake names. Without the woman stating specifically if they are participating and at what level, we can only guess.
I would default to say again that without the certainty of knowing, a moral person should default with the assumption that the women are participating in one way or another, and reading what is said about them as a person (not character).With these in mind, we can then make some proposals about moral vs immoral acts. It would be immoral to do any of the following without further clarifying the propose of the site and the participation expectations of the women in focus;
- Post pictures of women without their knowledge (images not already made public)
- Make negative comments about a person's physical appearance (unless honest feedback is requested)
- Use rude or inapropriate language
- Objectify a person
- Make moral judgements about another person
- Make comments of a strong sexual nature
etc... (99% of us should be capable of coming up with a list of immoral acts = things you wouldn't do to your mother or sister)
I believe this site and all the forums could still exist and adhere to basic guidelines of morality - i.e. this site in and of itself is not immoral, and neither is being a participant in the activities of this site. In actual practice, all of this is hard because we have people from different cultural backgrounds, different life styles, and different moral codes. Thus, to some extent I'd say this debate is one that could go on without end... or at least till people stop adding comments that pop it back to the top of the list