Many surgeons have a tendency to motivate clients to go for a certain style, frankly that's quite annoying, being told what looks best on you or your partner by somebody you expect just to fulfill your own wishes. Maybe for some it's helpful, i don't know, it has always bothered me.
Certainly there are surgeons specialized in certain styles, take for example Revis and Pousti, they are basically world famous for doing XXL and 'fake look'. There are others, but these guys are most well known i think.
As far as your 'pushing' your partner is concerned, if anything it's your job to convince her, and if she doesn't want to, sucks for you.