Interesting discussion on dating Apps.
After ending a long term marriage I found myself out looking again in my mid 50s.
I’m fortunate enough to be successful businessman , in pretty good shape and have all my own teeth and most of my hair still 😂.
I spent a year or so trying Sugar Baby sites, but that was pretty frustrating.
I did meet some lovely women, Some lasted longer than others and some we became very good freinds.
However after a while I wanted more and a SB probably isn’t going to be it.
I do have a love of large fake boobs, also an interest in the Dom/ sub field , as well as several other areas that most women would find a challenge.
I tried Ok Cupid, dabbled with Fet Life, Plenty of Fish and several others.
Maybe it’s Australia, but all were totally useless unless you were looking for a burnt out bitter divorcee , who thought at 50 Plus, they were gods gift to mankind.
Most were overweight, or least didn’t bother to look after themselves, dressed very down market, or had a crappy sense of dress style.
It’s hard to convey just how frustrating that segment of the dating scene is unless you’ve tried it.
I will acknowledge that these women find it the same too, fat lazy men with zero prospects.
I even engaged a professional match maker, at great cost, but despite her best efforts and full disclosure from myself on what I was looking for, she fared no better.
I was recommended Elite Singles , the premise was to meet at least an employed professional woman.
Again the same frustrations, but the caliber of persons was better.
I did meet a lovely lady in her mid 40s, who had some interest in being a Sub, she had already had a BA, which was common among more affluent professional women. Going larger May of happened if the relationship had lasted, she decided to go back to her husband.
However I drew several lessons from this and other meetings.
I found I was mentally suited to a woman around ten years younger, simple things like using tech, interest in going out , meeting people.
A higher educated woman equals a more open mind, can accept new ideas and willing to try out different things.
More likely to have started down the road of cosmetic enhancements, most had already had at least one BA and would consider another, larger BA, not necessarily an XL size but it’s a start.
The other interesting discovery was what I termed career burn out.
Most had spent years fighting to the top of their fields, they had reached their glass ceilings and had realised further advancement was limited. They were tired of the corporate struggle, many had raised children and made sacrifices for their careers.
Missed school plays and family / social events for careers and now they felt betrayed and guilty about giving so much for so little return.
Sorry, will come to finish,