Geez!,...People can, and do, at least sometimes, EXPLAIN what it is about something that they find compelling. Do you guys not know the meaning of "understand"? I might like to hear from somebody who has this "fetish", if you will, and not a lot you philosophizing about, or "explaining" to me about there being different kinds of people in the world. I make no judgement about this phenomenon, or those who are "into" it. Never mind...