I want the girl of my dreams, if she were a homebody and not a crazy stripper girl. Society be damned, but you gotta take a few things into consideration.
If Maxi were crazy stripper girl who causes barfights and makes embarassing dinner conversation, then I couldn't last with her. But to be honest, she came off as being a homebody when she wasn't on tour (which makes her perfect IMHO).
Are you so sure you're ready for all the rude comments? When you two are asked to leave a restaurant because she is causing a scene? Ready to interject every asshole who approaches her and blatently hits on her in front of you? Ready for the anxiety that that car two cars back has been following you for blocks on your way home? Ready to get physical with with the drunks who call her a freak or a whore? The laughing and jeering? Because I for one am not so sure. But I'd give it a try. Somebody set me up with Beshine/Mayra.
I think that your opinion is maybee too negative. All the things you tell is very posible but it also happens with a normal girlfriend. I also think that it is part of the price (To a certain y reasonable degree) for having a girlfriend with big fake boobs.
On the other hand is also depend very much on...
* where you go with her
* her clothing
* and her behavior.
I believe that if you go to friendly places with her and she knows how to dress and to behave to avoid trouble, than one can give it a try.
This is also the reason why i prefer as a girlfriend a unknown big fake boobs woman with a normal Job who wants to stay unknown.
When I read the posts on this subject of both of you gentlemen, i get the impression that your perfect girl should have extremely beautiful body and live life as a nun. Be obedient and always want to fulfill your wishes. Or have I misunderstood both of you gentlemen.
I think this is somewhat unrealistic, Girls who increase their breasts are usually extravert.
Hi atb31,
have you seen the pictures of Chelsea Charms or Beshine when they go out during a normal day? How dressed they are? This is what I am talking about and I dont think that it is too much to ask for. I mean if she is big than there is not much she can do to stay incognito, but one thing is being big and a other thing is to walk around with a bouncing and giantic cleavage.
And if she goes out real sexy and for example with her friends I don´t have a problem with it either. If she wants to be in the club the center of attention of all the men inside than okay but without me.I dont know what kind of experiences you had with women, but I have had quite a few girlfriends who were really pretty and I can tell you at beginning I felt great and succesfull to have such a pretty girlfriend and all the guys trying to pick her up was the confirmation of this success and also it was a great self-promotion to the other women in the place.
But once the hype is gone its starts to get really annoying, because you start to notice that you are going out with her but you are not really doing much with her because of her behavior and/or the horny guys. Then some of the guys try to make you look like a loser in her eyes, others dont know you but really want to be your "friend" and others comes with stupid excuses like "Oh sorry body, I thought you were her brother",....and watch out not to end in a fight with some guy it happens easier than you think.
So at the end you realize that you barely could spend some part of the evening with her. And you also notice that she even didn´t care about you, do you want a girlfriend that don´t care about you? At the end I stopped to go out with her into discos, clubbings, etc
Did you ever question yourself why I woman does that? Some of my girlfriends really just wanted attention, others didn´t provoke it but they enjoyed it when it did happen. But others were also checking out for a "better" boyfriend, they are with you because you are "the best" she can have at the moment as soon a better guy shows up than you are out of the game. And there is always a better guy out there.
You want to go into a club with a "Candy Charms"-type woman? Fine do that and if you are the right guy you may enjoy it as long as it last.
I choose to go to a exposition, cinema or a museum with a down to earth "Chelsea Charms"-type woman, that doesn´t have attention-issues and cares more about me and our relationship.
One advice a guy once gived to me: Have the one night stand with the pretty one, but marry the average one.